? You know not ( moved China )First of all, I as the one Dangshansu expressed strong resentment and dissatisfaction with the marriage customs of Men home! Let I General Men Dangshan people are how to know to get married! I do not know the city, from rural areas start!
first step: to meet. Every home for the holiday, are blind date a good time. From the field hard year, returned home a few days, certainly someone to introduce you to object. Because most of us listen to at home, then: First talk to see it! The men, led by the matchmaker, and the woman met. 80% of the meeting place are market towns. The man to try to wear, cool, so as to ensure the success rate of the blind. At least to take more than ten dollars a pack of cigarettes, the elders met a woman up the men to smoke, so as to show your maturity and be a man. Even if you are a small youth not to smoke. Mutual nod, the man and woman in the set, go shopping, said the session. Attention! A few minutes of talk time, you should determine their own future, or else marry her. Then both men and women to their homes and their families to discuss the next step. If one party does not like each other, on the matchmaker to talk about these things would be spoiled if the two sides can also can be the next step.
Step 2: on Dangshan to buy things. After both men and women to meet, then can be Dangshan to buy things. What to buy? To buy clothes. Are generally both men and women two people, from home to car to the Dangshan the best shopping centers (Sea Orchid House, Trust-Mart brand stores) to buy clothes. Woman to buy clothes, pay the man. Blind time is winter, so buy two down jackets and two pants, two pairs of socks, two pairs of shoes, a suitcase. Buy two sets of clothes is the meaning of good pairs to buy a suitcase bought clothing clothing up. At this time almost dinner time to find a restaurant for dinner. For the first time with a future girlfriend to eat, must not be stingy. At least find a decent hotel (the Yangtze River, Jinli Hotel), at least the main points of four dishes eat points. Then both men and women can go home, and can now proceed.
third step: too small ceremony. Since the previous meeting and shopping, the man showed a fall for the woman, without any hesitation the determination, now finally can small gift! Too small ceremony by the man to the woman home. Then the man got any money, to buy things what a mess. You want to see the people the woman what less what would fault the woman's home, which is not agreed to the marriage. Satiated after the marriage of man and woman can be set. Had a small ceremony, there has to be like a small ceremony to pay the deposit. Are generally 6000, 8000 and 11000,6 and 8 are lucky number, 11000 on behalf of Finally the woman holding the deposit and the last time the two of you go shopping to buy clothes. Forgot to say, the value of the two sets of clothes should be in about 2000. Do you think so that you successfully completed? The answer is no. And many did not say, look at the fourth step.
fourth step: the holidays to send things. Had a small ceremony in front to complete the next step is marriage, the man went to the woman home to send things (Spring Festival set have to go before the fifteenth day of New Year). First went to the girlfriend at home, things can not be less with, even if the road is hard to walk. During the reception, the future father-in-law certainly will ask a bunch of people to drink with you. Note: This wine must drink, and must not be drunk. Dinner Laozhang Ren sure to ask you something, drunk and talking nonsense supra shoes tk, may lead to the untimely death of this marriage. We all feel satisfied, you can go home. Your future father-in-law before going to give you hundreds block kowtow money, 600, 800, 1000. Pay more than ten thousand dollars is now finally a little return! Do not pleased too early, then you have to pay attention to see if your girlfriend has no nephew, niece or something. If you have to give them lucky money. Have to give at least 200, if the two had to give, even if they are still nursing the child. So that it seems out of your maturity and work. Task to Lao Zhangren New Year finally completed, and now the fifth step.
Step five: the holidays gifts. At this time both men and women to the field work Herve Leger Dresses, all go to different cities, each doing their own work. Fantasy Do not go out to work with his own girlfriend, alone, that you deposit wanted to take the daughter of the people living together, it is impossible! Think she can beat her phone only. At this time, if it is a major holiday, such as: Dragon Boat Festival, Mid-Autumn Festival, the man at home must be someone with the woman home gifts. Gifts to the bride's family will not know the rules on the grounds to the man's family break off an engagement. Not only so simple gifts, the man in the field do not, and the other women fall in love, to deny the woman will break off an engagement, but not refund. If the woman in the field and others love it? Good question! If the woman's other boyfriend in the field, then considered the woman's breach of contract, she will deposit to be returned to the man. As for mental damages, the law does not seem to this one. If both men and women up to a year, then I congratulate you. After a year of hard suffering, your love is finally coming into fruition. Now the last link, this link is the best, the most critical.
Step 6: under the ceremony and marriage is the marriage of the bride price can not be less, are generally similar to around 50,000. Married to have a new house, or cover, or buy. Buy and cover the price of almost two million out of the man. With the new house before they can marry. The woman out of what? Some of the dowry, such as: furniture; quilts worthless most of the money to buy out with the man. Forgot to say, the woman before marriage, the man will need to buy Married the day, not so smoothly you might think, would certainly have you come up with a little accident, then the man money to In short, the wedding day, the man at least with a Million dollars in cash to meet urgently. Not do not know, be shocked. In order to form a new home, you spend almost three hundred thousand, and your wife spend less 20,000, or even a zero. Lucky wife but also with tens of thousands to you; bad luck penny. In this way, the parents worked so hard for decades, the night back to the liberation. You own a few years of hard hard work are cast into it. Of venture capital, you have to continue to work, everything from scratch.
Finally I would like to say: Since marriage is a matter of two people, did not need everything all the man out, this will make men feel very tired. Million which Are ordinary people, or save three million tory burch flats, easier said than done! No wonder that more and more Dangshan boy choose the field of girls, not because the Dangshan the girl bad, but The Dangshan the girl was too expensive The culprit for this situation, not a the Dangshan women too little, but this marriage customs too old. Marriage customs, the impression is buying a wife. Now Han's, why should we stay in a rut? Why can not we struggle together for a better future?
Results the Dangshan people can not afford marriage after 90 in Dangshan
August 31, 2011
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